Offering 1:1 counselling
to male survivors of domestic abuse
Paul listened without judgment, which was really important to me. He had a calming presence, and I felt at ease speaking about how I was feeling. Through talking to Paul, he helped me see things from different perspectives, which has been both enlightening and healing. I would not hesitate to recommend Paul as a therapist.
A male survivor of domestic abuse often grapples with a complex mix of emotions. Shame and stigma are prevalent, as societal expectations suggest men should be strong and self-reliant, leading to embarrassment and reluctance to seek help. This can cause feelings of isolation, with survivors believing their experiences won’t be understood or taken seriously. Fear of disbelief and potential retaliation from the abuser further complicates their situation.
You may feel your life is in a downward spiral.
I know that mental health issues such as depression and anxiety are common, arising from the trauma of the abuse. Your self-esteem may suffer, resulting in feelings of worthlessness. Confusion is frequent, particularly with emotional or psychological abuse, making it hard to recognise and validate their experiences. A profound sense of helplessness often emerges, especially if attempts to seek help have been dismissed. The lack of resources specifically for male survivors can make the path to recovery even more challenging.
How I can help...
Fortunately, I believe things are improving. More support is becoming available, and I am dedicated to helping as many male survivors of domestic abuse as possible find the right path to recovery.
NELSON MANDELA
“Ending domestic violence starts with us – in our homes, in our communities. Let’s teach our children love, not violence.”
OPRAH WINFREY
“Every survivor of domestic violence deserves to be heard, believed, and supported. Let’s create a world where they can heal and thrive. “
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